{"id":15380,"date":"2016-11-10T13:30:29","date_gmt":"2016-11-10T11:30:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/realitatearutiera.ro\/?p=15380"},"modified":"2016-11-10T09:43:11","modified_gmt":"2016-11-10T07:43:11","slug":"normele-comportamentului-civilizat-o-carte-de-succes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/realitatearutiera.ro\/?p=15380","title":{"rendered":"Normele comportamentului civilizat, o carte de succes"},"content":{"rendered":"

O persoan\u0103 care are viciul fumatului este obligat\u0103 s\u0103 respecte o serie de reguli de bun-sim\u0163 atunci c\u00e2nd merge \u00een vizit\u0103 ori c\u00e2nd pur \u015fi simplu se afl\u0103 pe strad\u0103. \u00cen \u201eCodul bunelor maniere\u201c, Aurelia Marinescu d\u0103 c\u00e2teva sfaturi esen\u0163iale de care trebuie s\u0103 \u0163in\u0103 cont fum\u0103torul.<\/p>\n

\"Imagini<\/p>\n

1. C\u00e2nd e invitat undeva, renun\u0163\u0103 la \u0163ig\u0103rile sale obi\u015fnuite (dac\u0103 sunt ieftine) \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi cump\u0103r\u0103 un pachet de \u0163ig\u0103ri fine.<\/p>\n

2. Nu-\u015fi aprinde \u0163igara dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 gazda a dat tonul. Dac\u0103 nu, cere voie. Dac\u0103 i se r\u0103spunde delicat (fiind de fa\u0163\u0103 copii sau oameni bolnavi) “vom deschide geamul” – se va ab\u0163ine s\u0103 fumeze.<\/p>\n

3. Domnii ofer\u0103 foc doamnelor scul\u00e2ndu-se \u00een picioare; doamnele \u00eentre ele \u00ee\u015fi ofer\u0103 bricheta.<\/p>\n

4. Scrumul se pune numai \u00een scrumiere. Dac\u0103 nu sunt pe mas\u0103, le ve\u0163i cere gazdei. Nu folosi\u0163i drept scrumier\u0103 orice obiect v\u0103 cade sub m\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi nu v\u0103 confec\u0163iona\u0163i scrumiere din h\u00e2rtie sau \u015fervetele.<\/p>\n

5. Dac\u0103 sunte\u0163i fum\u0103tor \u015fi v-a\u0163i uitat pachetul acas\u0103, g\u0103si\u0163i o alt\u0103 solu\u0163ie dec\u00e2t cea a “tapatului”. Pute\u0163i ie\u015fi din cas\u0103 discret pentru a va cump\u0103ra, f\u0103r\u0103 a anun\u0163a toat\u0103 adunarea.<\/p>\n

6.Dac\u0103 v\u0103 este oferit\u0103 o \u0163igar\u0103 \u015fi o accepta\u0163i, sunte\u0163i obligat s\u0103 o aprinde\u0163i pe loc. Nu o ve\u0163i pune nici pe mas\u0103, nici \u00een po\u015fet\u0103 \u015fi nici… Dup\u0103 ureche!<\/p>\n

7. C\u00e2nd face\u0163i o vizit\u0103, chiar neprotocolar\u0103, \u00eentr-o cas\u0103 \u00een care \u015fti\u0163i c\u0103 se fumeaz\u0103, polite\u0163ea v\u0103 oblig\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eentreba\u0163i totu\u015fi gazda dac\u0103 v\u0103 d\u0103 voie s\u0103 v\u0103 aprinde\u0163i o \u0163igar\u0103. S-ar putea s\u0103 se fi l\u0103sat de cur\u00e2nd \u015fi s\u0103 v\u0103 roage s\u0103 nu-i pune\u0163i voin\u0163a la \u00eencercare.<\/p>\n

8. Nu se fumeaz\u0103 pe strad\u0103.<\/p>\n

9. Nu se intr\u0103 \u00een magazine cu \u0163igara aprins\u0103.<\/p>\n

10. \u00cen unele \u0163\u0103ri, (Germania, de pild\u0103) unde oamenii sunt foarte grijulii cu s\u0103n\u0103tatea lor, nu se fumeaz\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103. Ve\u0163i \u00eentreba unde se poate fuma \u015fi vi se va indica un anumit loc. Nu \u00eencerca\u0163i s\u0103-l descoperi\u0163i singur, fum\u00e2nd de exemplu… \u00een baie!<\/p>\n

Cum se \u0163ine cea\u015fca de cafea<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pentru a bea cafeaua, ne a\u015fez\u0103m sau r\u0103m\u00e2nem \u00een picioare. Dac\u0103 alegem al doilea caz, se \u0163ine farfurioara cu m\u00e2na st\u00e2ng\u0103 \u015fi cea\u015fca cu dreapta, \u00een timp ce lichiorurile sunt a\u015fezate pe o m\u0103su\u0163\u0103, fiecare pahar av\u00e2nd un disc de protec\u0163ie sub picior. Cafeaua trebuie s\u0103 fie fierbinte, alcoolurile urmeaz\u0103 regula pe care am enun\u0163at-o, lichiorurile sunt la temperatura camerei. Aceast\u0103 or\u0103 care urmeaz\u0103 masa este consacrat\u0103 conversa\u0163iei.<\/p>\n

\"Imagini<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 un artist<\/strong> cunoscut se g\u0103se\u015fte printre invita\u0163i \u015fi se ofer\u0103 s\u0103 c\u00e2nte, va fi ascultat cu pl\u0103cere<\/strong>. Dar nu<\/strong> se cuvine s\u0103-l rug\u0103m<\/strong>. Este un lucru pe care un amfitrion nu trebuie s\u0103 \u015fi-l permit\u0103, c\u0103ci cea mai bun\u0103 mas\u0103 nu este suficient\u0103 pentru a pl\u0103ti recitalul unui mare artist al c\u0103rui onorariu, de obicei, e infinit mai mare!<\/p>\n

Plecarea la ora potrivit\u0103<\/strong> este obligatorie \u00een cazul recep\u0163iilor. Invitatul mul\u0163ume\u015fte amfitrionului, g\u0103sind c\u00e2teva cuvinte potrivite \u00een acest scop. Se d\u0103 obligatoriu un telefon de mul\u0163umire, nu mai t\u00e2rziu de o zi.<\/p>\n

\u00a0O carte de succes <\/strong><\/p>\n

Pretutindeni \u00een lume, c\u0103r\u0163ile care ne \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 normele comportamentului civilizat se bucur\u0103 ast\u0103zi de un imens succes. \u201cCodul bunelor maniere ast\u0103zi\u201d nu face excep\u0163ie: la dou\u0103zeci de ani de la apari\u0163ie s-a v\u00e2ndut \u00een peste 300.000 de exemplare. Scris cu inteligen\u0163\u0103, deplin adaptat uzan\u0163elor moderne occidentale \u015fi totodat\u0103 celor rom\u00e2ne\u015fti, Codul este un veritabil bestseller na\u0163ional.<\/p>\n

\"Imagini<\/p>\n

Sursa:adev\u0103rul.ro<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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